It’s late at night, after midnight, and I should be heading to bed.  But I felt a need to pause and post a quick THANK YOU to those who share my heart through my music.  It has been a gloriously fulfilling and heartwarming holiday performance season for me.  The Lord blessed me with relatively good health.  I did not try to cut any of my fingers off this year (as I did last year!).  My throat remained strong and healthy in spite of many around me lovingly sharing their germs.  And though I live with nerve damage from Guillain Barre Syndrome I have not suffered with distressing pain or weakness even when I overdo it.  Thanks be to the Maker of us all!  And thanks be to Him for planting a witness in my heart that He is worthy of praise through music…thatHe gave and continues to give all good things to His children…and that He is my redeemer.

I look forward to doing some writing the next few months, am excited to be working on the Clytie Adams show this summer, and am allowing little ponderous thoughts about a children’s album to creep into my head.

Thank you, if you are reading this, for your interest and support.  Grass roots music is the farmer’s market of the music world and I thank you for supporting my humble harvest.

Be well!

Cori

A few years back I wrote this little essay which was published in one of my favorite little magazines called GUIDEPOSTS.  I printed copies of it this past Monday when I shared my table with 10 beautiful young women whom I teach in church.  They come to my house every month for what we call Laurel Lunch during the school day. We try to have everything prepared for them so they can sweep in, gobble goodness, and head back to school without needing a written excuse for being late.  I absolutely love these girls and cherish their friendship and pray for them to be strong in a rapidly declining moral environment.  Among other things their plates had little mounds of peas.  And beside their plates, next to their knives,  was this little story about my mom and the grandfather I never knew but through his daughter’s eyes:

The Knife

One Sunday afternoon our family gathered around our big oak table for dinner. Soon my daughter Kate’s laughter rose above the talk. “Gram, you’re silly!” she said. We all turned to see my mom delicately lifting to her mouth a small strand of peas on the blade of her knife. All but one pea made it, and everyone clapped. Then Mom told us the story behind her unorthodox technique:

“When I was little we didn’t have much. It was the Depression. But we did have a table full of food because my father grew wonderful vegetables. Lots of hoboes who had jumped from the train wandered onto our property, looking for a meal. More often than not an extra seat was pulled up to our dinner table.

“One summer afternoon I was sweeping the kitchen floor when my father’s voice came through the screen door: ‘Lizzy, set another plate. We have company tonight.’ Our guest paused in the doorway, and dipped his head in a gesture of gratitude. ‘Looks like he doesn’t speak much English,’ Dad said, ‘but he’s hungry like we are. His name is Henry.’

“When dinner was ready Henry stood until we were all seated, then gently perched on the edge of his chair, his head bowed and his hat in his lap. The blessing was said and dishes were passed from hand to hand.

“We all waited, as was proper, for our guest to take the first bite. Henry must have been so hungry he didn’t notice us watching him as he grabbed his knife. Carefully he slid the blade into the pile of peas before him, and then lifted a quivering row to his mouth without spilling a single pea. He was eating with his knife! I looked at my sister May and we covered our mouths to muffle our snickers. Henry took another knifeful, and then another.

“My father, taking note of the glances we were exchanging, firmly set down his fork. He looked me in the eye, then took his knife and thrust it into the peas on his plate. Most of them fell off as he attempted to lift them to his mouth, but he continued until all the peas were gone.

“Dad never did use his fork that evening, because Henry didn’t. It was one of my father’s silent lessons in acceptance. He understood the need for this man to maintain his dignity, to feel comfortable in a strange place with people of different customs. Even at my young age I understood the greatness of my father’s simple act of brotherhood.”

Mom paused, looked at her grandchildren, and winked as she plowed her knife into a mountain of peas.

Contributed by Cori Connors, of Farmington, Utah, to Guideposts, March 1997, p. 36

We read the story, then I challenged the girls to remember to be gracious with all people, especially those they don’t understand.  Then noting the impending season of Thanksgiving and Christmas, I challenged them to find Christ in places where they might not normally look for Him.  And if He is not easily found, I asked them to invite Him in.  In the halls at school, in the dressing room at their dance recitals, in their locker rooms, and their cars.  They are beautiful loving daughters of God and I know that if they are conscious of it they will seek for all good things. How I love them!

And for sure, tomorrow…Thanksgiving day…you’ll find the Connors/Hansen family sliding their knives under the peas on their plates in honor of my mother’s father, George Washington Parrish, and the goodness he saw, shared, and bestowed on his posterity.

Happy Thanksgiving!